Archive for March, 2010


Storm Surge Splurge for Two
March 31st, 2010 | Comments

A storm surge splurge for you and your honey if ever we’ve seen one!

This umbrella built for two is on our must have list when it comes out!  At $39.95 it falls into our small splurge category. Available from Hammacher Schlemmer on 4/30/2010.






Play Travel Roulette
March 30th, 2010 | 1 Comment

It is still raining where we live and we’ve had enough. We’ve decided that before Noah and his Ark schedule a pick up  it’s time to evacuate the premises.

But, what’s a Bitch on a Budget to do?

Play travel roulette onKayak.com/buzz. Just type in your departure city and they’ll aggregate the cheapest fares to random destinations all over the world. Or, if you must be a more controlling B,  specify the month you want to travel and select your regional destination. Normally we love to be the one on top, but we’re willing to give up a little to get a great bargain.

Best of all, we’re just looking—no commitments required. Check it out … feel your engine revving.






College, Shoes and Karmic Happiness
March 29th, 2010 | Comments

These are the weeks when seniors in high school are hearing the good, and the bad, and the ‘we’re not sure yet’ news.

Even before the letters (or e-mails) arrive, the college admissions frenzy has left both kids and parents emotionally raw. After all the testing, tutoring, campus visiting, essay writing, financial aid form processing and interviewing, the time spent getting into a dream school has become disproportionate with the amount of time spent in college.

Not surprisingly, these are the weeks when everyone says it doesn’t matter where you go to college, that college isn’t the sole determiner of life-long happiness and financial success.

Achieving life-long happiness is a rather abstract concept no matter what your age. Try convincing a kid who has spent 12 years in school (more…)






PHO Harmony in a Bowl
March 28th, 2010 | Comments

Pho often considered the national dish of Vietnam is food harmony in a bowl. Combining the subtle aromatics of star anise, ginger and cinnamon; the deep flavor of a rich broth; the toothy chewiness of rice noodles and the finishing brightness of fresh herbs Pho (rhymes with ‘duh’) is the perfect meal.

While there is no one perfect Pho recipe one of our favorites is from Viet World Kitchen. This link is to a Pho Bo recipe, a beef stock and beef filled noodle soup. (Chicken, pork and vegetarian versions are all equally delicious.)

We tweak this Pho Bo recipe slightly by adding 2 teaspoons of fennel and 5 green cardamom pods to the spice ingredients. To get more flavor out of the spices ‘toast’ them quickly in a pan (just until their fragrant aromatics are released) then bundle them in a cheesecloth and place in the stock.  We also like our beans sprouts crispy (not parboiled as in the recipe) and always refrigerate the stock overnight to skim the fat from it.  Finally, as a finish we load up on the fresh herbs (never optional) and have Sriracha and Hoisin sauces on our tables so guests can add a final finish to their bowls.

Serve this piping hot!






B’s Give Back: Saturday Morning Potluck
March 27th, 2010 | 3 Comments

A modern B knows what she needs and knows how to get it. She also knows that other people need things, too–that we’ve got to look out for one another. Every weekend we bring you examples of women who find creative, meaningful ways to give to others, even when money and time are tight. To tell us how you help, click “Comments” above– you might be featured here next week.

It seems only fitting that it’s Saturday morning and we’ve spent the entire week obsessing about food on these pages, because today’s Queen B’ Yvette gives up her Saturday morning to help cook vast quantities of piping hot fresh meals to feed the homeless. In her words this is how she gives back:

“I spend my Saturday mornings as a volunteer feeding the homeless and let me tell you, these are no sack lunches (which we do as well) but on Saturdays our community churches and individuals come together for a potluck but the twist is, the food goes to feed hundreds to thousands of homeless people in our area. This treats them to hot, delicious meals from fried chicken to lasagna to shrimp scampi, whatever the spirit moves people to bring to share and bless them with.

Working together in an assembly and serving line, the group of 20-50 volunteers can serve the masses within a couple of hours.”






Contest #9: The Best Spring Veggie Soup
March 26th, 2010 | 11 Comments

We asked.  You answered.

We asked what recipe contest you would like to see next and you answered- fresh spring vegetable soup. We’re so excited because we love soup.

So without further ado send us your yummy -hot or cold- spring soup favorites.

We’ll publish your recipe and send you a copy of Bitches on a Budget.

Contest ends April 5th.






Read It And… Eat?
March 25th, 2010 | 2 Comments

One thing is clear: someone in power must have got their hands on Bitches on a Budget.

According to the New York Times:

“Buried deep in the health care legislation that President Obama signed on Tuesday is a new requirement that will affect any American who walks into a MacDonald’s, Burger King, or Starbucks. Every big restaurant chain in the nation will now be required to put calorie information on their menus and drive-through signs.”

Hallelujah! Guess we were ahead of the curve. In our book (see page 81), we insisted that every B in American 1) learn how to read a food label, and 2) “demand your local town or city pass a law that requires restaurants to post calorie and nutrition values on menus.”

Not to take full responsibility (we know others who’ve made this demand for transparency), but it goes to show that we B’s are on the forefront of change. (Read The Bitches for other hot ideas.)

Our mission is simple. We want to be healthier, empowered, happier eaters. We want to know what goes in our bodies. Yes, sometimes we’ll indulge, but we want to know exactly what we’re eating, not to be tricked or mislead. An educated consumer is a healthier consumer. We deserve to know that a Big Mac contains 500 calories, that a Starbucks Iced White Chocolate Mocha has 340 calories, that Panera Bread’s Frontega Chicken Hot Panini weighs in at  a whopping 860 calories.

This is good change.

Now we just have to tackle increased maternal mortality, homelessness, literacy and the economy.

We’re on it.






The Agony & The Ecstasy
March 24th, 2010 | Comments


Whether you’re a sports fan or not, whether you’re obsessed with the brackets or they look like hieroglyphics to you, if you’re at all human the psychological drama of a massive upset means something.  When the underdog comes from behind to beat the absolute hands-down favorite, the human drama transcends sports.

Watching parents sobbing in the stands; witnessing the euphoric, astonished faces of the victors, the bewildered losers collapsed on the floor; experiencing the brief, giddy sense of a universe turned on its head…. well, isn’t there something thrilling about these biggest human emotions rendered on a small, safe, televised scale?

As B’s on a Budget, we feel obliged to remind you periodically of the joy of sports. Free/cheap to enjoy, perfect opportunities for socializing, perfect opportunities for watching women and men performing at their peak and for witnessing the wild tumult of human drama.

Who are you rooting for?






Random Mama B Gripe
March 23rd, 2010 | 10 Comments

We wish to issue a complaint.

We’ve got nothing against Babies ‘R’ Us.  Yes, we’re a bit overwhelmed by the whole idea of a ‘baby superstore’—which makes you think you need waaaay more than you actually need. Don’t get us started on the whole baby bathtub racket. Or changing tables? Useless piece of furniture! Use a dressertop with a pad! (Click here to see our list of baby products to avoid.)

But we digress. Sometimes one needs supplies, and Babies ‘R’ Us can offer good deals. Our complaint? It’s with their parking lots. The spots closest to the door are posted with signs saying “Reserved for Expectant Mothers.”

Uh, hello? Pregnancy is not a disability. By and large, pregnant women can and should walk. We’ve never looked at being pregnant as being a handicap unless of course we are nine months in, weigh a zillion pounds, have ankles swollen larger than our thighs and are anatomically out of balance while standing on a screeching piece of public transit. Then, yes, all you able bodied people should stand up and give us your seats.

How about also reserving convenient spots for mothers with small children? Because, really now, who deserves this courtesy? Parents lugging infant carriers or squirmy toddlers through a busy parking lot, that’s who.

Can we get an ‘amen’?






Contest #8: Beating The Odds
March 22nd, 2010 | 10 Comments

In light of the NCAA College Basketball tournament, we’ve been thinking a lot about Cinderella stories, those come-from-behind, unexpected victories that take our breath away. Tell us: in sports, books, art, life—what’s your favorite underdog story? Have YOU ever been the prevailing underdog?

Inspire us. Best underdog story wins a copy of our book. Click “comments” above. Winner announced April Fools…oops April 1st.